Start Meditating, Stop Medicating
I was appalled to hear a news announcement on the Australian Television during November 2011, stating “The National Health and Medical Research Council is considering controversial draft guidelines that could refer parents who fail to medicate their children to child protection authorities. Parents, with ADD/ADHD diagnosed children, could be forced to medicate their children with prescribed drugs”.
I believe 50% or more of children being diagnosed with ADD/ADHD do not have it. They simply cannot cope with the negative energy surrounding them and do not feel loved. Instead they are fearful for their wellbeing and have deep seated fear for their safety and security amongst other negative emotions.
I appeal to parents & other family members to start becoming more aware of your own emotions and how you are projecting your negative energy upon your children. Take the steps to heal yourself so your children can feel safe, secure, accepted and free of behavioral issues “diagnosed as ADD/ADHD”.
The same applies to anti-depressants, which are also being prescribed to children. These drugs have terrible side effects and are in many cases making people sick, not better. Many adults are being prescribed these drugs as quick fixes when all they do is help you suppress and hold onto the negative emotion causing the chaos in your lives. The only winners in that game are these pharmaceutical companies. You have the power to heal yourself, drug free.
The first step is to look at your belief systems around many of your lifestyle desires and work out which ones have negative impacts upon your wellbeing, and the wellbeing of you family.
Want to make the change? Step out of the blame game, accept your past and start changing your own internal thoughts to positive loving beliefs; the positive effects can then come into play. There is so much help out there. Trust and take the first step to change.
Power of the Mind, Meditation & Healing
Meditation
There are far better ways of healing these issues. With self-discipline and mind control, many of these difficulties can fade. Start rejecting any negative information or behavior you experience, and chose only positive words and thoughts. The more you practice this, the more you will notice an increase in positive energy within and around you.
Meditation is a wonderful practice that helps clear the mind of negative thoughts and reconnects you to your inner soul, which is pure love. Refer to “Guided Meditations“ for more understanding around the power of meditation. Refer also to “Energy Healing”
How to Show Your Children Love
Simple ways to allow your children to feel loved is to hear them, no matter what emotional state they are displaying. Children do not make up emotions, they learn them. If they are feeling bad emotions then something in their mind & beliefs is creating this emotion. Listen to your children and observe their behaviors. Talk to them with the love and respect they deserve. Your children mirror yourselves; if you’re not being respectful to them then I ask you “How can you expect any respect in return?” Your children learn from you, so if you desire love from your children then feel & show your love for them completely and unconditionally first.
Make the decision to give them a better life by focusing on loving them. Do not try to buy their love with material possessions. All you do then is create another negative belief system around money, possessions and relationships.
Tell your children everyday you love them; be affectionate with true unconditional love. There is nothing sweeter for any child than the warm, loving hug from their Mum or Dad. Spend time with them showing them how to be independent. Show them, both boys and girls, how to cook, clean, prepare their lunches for school, dishes, vacuuming, dusting, sweeping, cleaning their toys, cleaning their rooms and any other activities which will help them learn how to take care of themselves.
Spend time relaxing with them reading a book, swimming, playing in the park, throwing the ball, kicking the footy, playing cricket. All this is easy to do, and doesn’t have to cost a lot. Teach them a simple and relaxing way to live their lives. Help them pack a picnic and take them to a special place for them to sit in nature and enjoy the food they have prepared.
Set Boundaries but Allow Freedom of Choice
If you say no, mean no. How can your children believe what you say when you change your mind or go back on what you say? It’s imperative to follow through with your decisions. But do not make decisions when you are upset or angry, wait until you can see the bigger picture. It is also important you do not try to control your child’s destiny. Your children need to be given the freedom to make choices for themselves. This builds their self esteem & trust. Your role as a parent is to provide moral guidance, routines and boundaries for your children and to keep them safe. If your guidance comes from the heart and with good intention your children will know the right choices to make in their lives.
Healing Powers of Nature.
Nature is very important to young children. The best way to teach your children the art of relaxation is to lie on the grass and watch the clouds or stars. This connection to the earth energies helps balance and releases any heavy energy they may have absorbed during the day. It also opens their minds to the wonders of the earth. Children love watching the clouds or stars.
Water will also cleanse us of negative emotions and is wonderful to play in. Take your children for regular swims and ask the water to cleanse yourselves of any absorbed negative energies. Prepare a bath with salt water for your children and light a candle. Ask the water and the flame to absorb any negative energy. Great practice for yourself too.
Exercise 1 – Negative Emotional Release -Breathing
Breathing deeply is also another way to release negative emotions. When you notice your child is becoming upset, give them time to overcome the initial heavy emotion they are feeling and then show them how to deep breathe by breathing in deeply through the nose and blowing out heavily through the mouth. Have your child do this for a minute or two and they will start to feel better. And if your feeling the same way, breathe with them and with intention ask that any negative emotions you are feeling be released from you and ask to be transmuted into the universal light of love.
Exercise 2 – Negative Emotion Release – Visualisation
If you are having difficult times with your children then use the power of your mind to find that love for them within you. If there are any difficult circumstances you are experiencing around your child, use the power of your mind to create the
Babies are Love
outcome that will be best for everyone’s highest good. Spend time alone with yourself and intentionally focus on rejecting all the frustration and annoyance you feel for your child. Then focus on the love you have for your child, see them as that beautiful baby smiling so happily at you sending you all the love in their heart. Babies are born full of unconditional love. They learn fearful emotions and behavior from their earth plane experiences. Your children will sense the difference in you, so become aware of the positive changes in their behavior as you feel more love towards them.
Indigo, Crystal and Rainbow Children
Many children are far more sensitive to the heavy earth bound energies created by man’s negative thoughts, beliefs, emotions and actions. They sense they do not belong. My own highly intuitive child came to me after a particularly difficult time with another little girl who, sadly is already a very angry little girl created from heavy family life experiences and holds strong beliefs around rejection. My little daughter cried in my arms telling me she doesn’t belong in this world. But I do not fear for her wellbeing, for I new I was hearing her inner soul crying out in pain for the connected suffering she was feeling for mankind itself.
Your children are feeling this same depth of emotion. They are the new race, the race born with higher “psychic” gifts and they possess what was always in man’s grasp. These are the Indigo, Crystal and Rainbow children. For more information follow this link ”Angel Therapy“.
Light workers like myself also possess these abilities and understand the challenges your children are facing on this earth plane.
Your children, are telepathic, they feel your emotions and hear your thoughts so again I appeal to all the parents out there, heal yourself so your children can live the life they are born to live, with love.
Just as we need to feel love, so do our children. If you have children and they seem difficult, they may not be feeling loving emotions.
These are all wonderful empowering practice to teach your children and to practise yourself.
With love comes peace & harmony.
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1 comment
Paige
22/01/2012
How powerful is that!